This is not a blog post that tells you appearance doesn’t matter. Because it does.
Initially, when you first meet someone, you judge them based on what he/she looks like.
Some may deny it, but when we first meet someone, our minds are trying to help us figure out the person. We want to know what we are dealing with. It’s like our minds are scrambling to find the pieces of a missing puzzle.
We take what we can get. This includes what the person looks like, his/her choice of clothing, his/her posture, his/her possessions, his/her body language, and so on.