This week’s topic was inspired by Diu podcast. As I was listening, it really caused me to think a lot.
When Jack brought up the question, “Can you preserve the culture once the language is lost?” I was astonished. I’ve never thought about it.
There were a number of questions running through my head. For instance: Have I preserved my culture? What do I even do? What are my beliefs?
Then, I realized aside from teaching my kids how to speak Cantonese/Mandarin and read Chinese, I have nothing else I plan to carry down to my future generation (if I were to have kids in the future).
I mean, I personally don’t follow traditions unless I am forced to. The only time I pray and put incenses up for my ancestors is when I’m in China.
I’ve done things such as leaping over fire, praying and bowing in different directions of the house, as well as burning fake money to my dead ancestors.
Yet, I have no intentions of carrying on these traditions. To me, I do it out of respect for my elders and relatives. But if I were to have kids, am I going to teach them or do these kinda stuff?? The answer is no.