My observations of men and women (In general)

men vs women

Disclaimer: This is based on my experiences. There are definitely people who do not fall under what I say as well. Please do not be offended.

Throughout my years, I’ve noticed some extreme differences between guys and girls.

Here is what I have noticed about guys:

They tend to be more logical. For example: If taking Route A will get them to their destination without issues, they will continue taking Route A from now on.

If they want to do something, they will do it. For example: If they want to see someone, they will make time to see that person. There’s no, “Oh..but this…but that..” They will just do it.

There’s a reason for every action that they take. Guys don’t seem to do things for no reason. They don’t like to waste their time.

They tend to be more goal oriented. Guys usually do not allow their emotions to control them. If they want to achieve a goal (ex. Losing weight, getting a promotion, winning a game, etc), they are more likely to continue on despite emotional downfalls. They tend to be very focused on their goals.

It’s either yes or no. Guys don’t really see the need to explain themselves.

As for girls/women, I’ve noticed that:

They tend to be more illogical. For example: Even if taking Route A will get them to their destination without issues, they might want to try different routes in hope that they will find a route that is even faster/better.

They are more emotional. A lot of the times, women, including myself, do things not because it’s what we want to do; but rather, what we think we ought to do. For example: “I don’t want to attend, but it’s rude if I don’t…so I should/have to.”

Sometimes they do things for absolutely no reason. It doesn’t help the situation at all. They just felt like it at that moment. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense.

They tend to be less straight forward. Rather than telling you exactly what they want, usually, they will hint or kind of go in circles. You have to figure it out. (I don’t do this, by the way)

It’s usually in between yes or no. Girls usually feel like they have to explain in details about their choices. Usually, they do not like choosing between yes or no.


And that’s it. This post is not motivational. It’s just some of the things I have noticed and I find it quite interesting. What are your thoughts?

NOTE: By no means am I trying to disrespect women. This is just based on my observations and I understand that my sample size may not be a fair one. I’m not trying to say men are better than women.

I’m also not trying to make women feel inferior to men.


Author: gchan7127

I just want to share all my knowledge, ideas, and experiences with the world. It makes me happy to know that I can inspire others.

12 thoughts on “My observations of men and women (In general)”

  1. i accept your post…But all boys and girls are same….

    some boys control their emotions some of the girls are not control their emotions..

    few of the boys and girls are different..

    We can never say both boys and girls are same character…

    My thoughts is

    who is understand one girls heart feeling and live for that girl is Good boy.

    who is stuf many things for one boys life and live for that boys is Good girl.

    my small request is dont betray any one.

    don’t play into anyone life with using the feelings Love. It make more pain than death..

    Jesus love you all..

    nice post gchan..keep it up…congrats..

    1. Aww thank you so much for sharing your views with me! I know what you mean.

      These are my thoughts but I am also generalizing.

      Yes, it is definitely terrible if people are using love to play around with each other.

      Thank you for the Christmas wish, I also wish you have a wonderful Christmas holiday. ❤

  2. Yeah i understand that thing in your post. Because some times you are express our ideas and thought in general way.

    thanks for your valuable reply and Wishes. Jesus bless you. take care gchan

  3. I just want to say that I am proud of you for standing your ground. Everyone has their own viewpoints and it’s natural that readers would get worked up about the way you have said things or shared your own perspective. I get it! 🙂 Not everyone agrees but I do wish sometimes the way that people disagree would be a lot more kinder and less harsh. Happy blogging, Grace! I want to keep hearing your thoughts in text. :0)

    1. Aww, thanks Karen. I didn’t mean to make women look bad. 😦 I will try to be more mindful of my words in the future to avoid this sort of misunderstanding. Thanks for all your support and have a Merry Christmas!

      P.S. ❤ youuu and I am still going through your blog posts. lol I am reading the hot pot one right now.

      1. I don’t think you made women look bad. I think some women are sensitive to the stereotypes that society has placed on us and wanted to be vocal about it. You were trying to make a point. That’s exactly what a blog is supposed to be doing. You also spurred a lot of discussion and thoughts too. 🙂

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