Disclaimer: This is based on my experiences. There are definitely people who do not fall under what I say as well. Please do not be offended.
Throughout my years, I’ve noticed some extreme differences between guys and girls.
Here is what I have noticed about guys:
They tend to be more logical. For example: If taking Route A will get them to their destination without issues, they will continue taking Route A from now on.
If they want to do something, they will do it. For example: If they want to see someone, they will make time to see that person. There’s no, “Oh..but this…but that..” They will just do it.
There’s a reason for every action that they take. Guys don’t seem to do things for no reason. They don’t like to waste their time.
They tend to be more goal oriented. Guys usually do not allow their emotions to control them. If they want to achieve a goal (ex. Losing weight, getting a promotion, winning a game, etc), they are more likely to continue on despite emotional downfalls. They tend to be very focused on their goals.
It’s either yes or no. Guys don’t really see the need to explain themselves.
As for girls/women, I’ve noticed that:
They tend to be more illogical. For example: Even if taking Route A will get them to their destination without issues, they might want to try different routes in hope that they will find a route that is even faster/better.
They are more emotional. A lot of the times, women, including myself, do things not because it’s what we want to do; but rather, what we think we ought to do. For example: “I don’t want to attend, but it’s rude if I don’t…so I should/have to.”
Sometimes they do things for absolutely no reason. It doesn’t help the situation at all. They just felt like it at that moment. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense.
They tend to be less straight forward. Rather than telling you exactly what they want, usually, they will hint or kind of go in circles. You have to figure it out. (I don’t do this, by the way)
It’s usually in between yes or no. Girls usually feel like they have to explain in details about their choices. Usually, they do not like choosing between yes or no.
And that’s it. This post is not motivational. It’s just some of the things I have noticed and I find it quite interesting. What are your thoughts?
NOTE: By no means am I trying to disrespect women. This is just based on my observations and I understand that my sample size may not be a fair one. I’m not trying to say men are better than women.
I’m also not trying to make women feel inferior to men.