Hello, my dear readers!
This post is based on my own experiences and is biased. Please understand there isn’t something that will work for every single woman/man. My intention is to help you. These tips are for the initial stage when you’re trying to get her/him interested.
1. Ask for her advice
Oftentimes, guys may notice someone they find attractive but do not know how to approach them without seeming creepy or desperate.
Well, I have the perfect solution for you! Go up to your “target” and ask for her opinion.
Women love to share their thoughts and give advice. Use this to your advantage. For example, you can go up to her and ask, “Hey. I’m debating between this *show her the item* and this *show her the other item*. I would like to get a woman’s opinion. Which would you choose and why?”
Unless you come off as a creep, chances are, she will stop and give you her opinion.
Once you get her talking, it is much easier to carry on the conversation. Notice her body language though. If she looks uncomfortable and wants to leave, don’t push it and just thank her for her time.
(A woman can do this too. It might seem rather bold, but I’m sure most men wouldn’t mind.) Continue reading “3 helpful dating tips for men (and women!)”