The One That Got Away

The one that got away

Since relationship is such a popular topic, I said I would blog about it once a week separate of my Monday post.

This week’s topic was suggested by my beloved Moo Moo (lol that’s her nickname). It’s a bit personal, but you guys like these type of posts. So, I guess I am sharing. Haha.

Throughout my life, I have had various men that came and left my life. (Okay, this sounds really bad. I’m honestly not a player. -_-) But I was naive and foolish back then; I didn’t hold onto them when I had the chance.

Thinking back, if I had made a difference choice back then, my life could have been totally different.

But the point is, I didn’t.

And they got away.

Now, most of them are in relationships; some are engaged and/or married.

Do I regret?

I honestly do think about it from time to time. I guess, there’s always that thought, “What if I had…?” 

It’s mainly curiosity, and maybe a slight bit of regret. But they’re all happy now (I think), and I’m glad they were able to find someone who loves and cherishes them.

What if they were to come back?

I honestly don’t know. That thought has never occurred to me until I found this picture on google just a couple minutes ago. Haha.

I’ve never thought about it. In my opinion, it’s too late. I didn’t take the chance when I had it, and now I can only watch. 

It doesn’t bother me though. I am the type of person who looks forward, and tries not to dwell on the past.

I’ve grown and I am older now. More experienced and less foolish.

The mistakes I have made in the past, I will try not to repeat again.

 

 

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18 Responses to The One That Got Away

  1. There’s a reason they got away. They are not good enough for you. The right one will come and stay.

    • gchan7127 says:

      Aww… thanks Jacqueline! Haha. I partly blame myself because I had the opportunity but I didn’t take it. Hopefully, I will meet the right one. ❤ Thank you for your comment!

  2. Akkhun says:

    Love isn’t enough for a relationship to work. If it didn’t work out the reasons were obviously important. Chances are if you were still together you’d be unhappy. If you didn’t fight for it in the first place it wasn’t worth it at the time..
    But those feelings of it not being worth it fade before the memories of that person does.

    • gchan7127 says:

      Aww, thank you for your comment, Akkhun. ❤ So true… "those feelings of it not being worth it fade before the memories of that person does."

      P.S. What does Akkhun mean? Haha. Out of curiosity, why do you choose to use that name?

      • Akkhun says:

        Haha its a name I made up because everytime I make a username elsewhere that uses actual words its always taken. So because I really like all my usernames to be the same I use this xD. Nothing special really. I also have a female form of the word for games that gender lock; Ascardis.

        Never expected to be asked this XD

      • gchan7127 says:

        Lol!! Haha I was just curious. I thought it was some type of fighter from a game or something.

        Most of the people who leave me comments do not use their real names, so I have no idea whether they are male or female. I can only guess. 😛

        And even if they use a female name, they could be male! :O

      • Akkhun says:

        Haha well I did try to make it sound kinda viking-ish.
        Haha so before this what did you guess for my gender? You had my real name from the donation thing but that could be male or female still xD

      • gchan7127 says:

        AHaahahaah!! My sensors tell me you’re a male, Alex! 😛 By the way, thank you for your donation. I am super thankful. Haha. Too bad donations are so rare.

        Sometimes, it’s very hard to tell. I think Ambi (one of my readers who thank me for every chapter) is female though (gut feeling). As for sneaky twiggy (the one who leaves silly comments), she/he can be anything. LOL. The others I’m honestly unsure. I usually assume they are a male if they use a male avatar.

      • Akkhun says:

        Heng lucky guess xP

  3. Jennifer says:

    Do you believe in the quote “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they are yours; if they, don’t they never were”?

    • gchan7127 says:

      Hey Jennifer! I do agree.. haha. Sometimes, I think it’s the timing. I probably would have reacted very differently now than before.

      It’s too late to regret the things that have already happened though. We can only look forward and try not to let good man/men slip away from us. LOL 😉 *wink wink*

      GUESS WHY I AM WINKING? WINK WINKKKKKKKK (yeah, I’m totally being lame right now)

  4. Tikeetha T says:

    I’ve loved many men too. No judgement.

  5. Dan says:

    The great white buffalo…

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